AminaZena Blogs: The Best Piece of Advice, STFU

Don’t complain about shit if you’re not gonna do shit to fix it!!!

If you have time to complain you have time to come up with a solution to your problem.

We all have that friend who you don’t even want to answer the phone for because you know it’s gonna be the same old shit that they’re complaining about. And if you are that friend please, for the love of God, stop complaining about the things you don’t even attempt or try to fix. Or if you’re on the receiving end tell your friend to shut the fuck up until they actually do something about it. Whatever “it” is.

If you know what you need to do in order to get what you want why do you continue to beat the dead horse? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and expecting that one day if you keep doing the exact same shit you’ve been doing that you’re going to get different results. That’s just plain stupid.

There are plenty of people out there who do not complain, who work for what they want and are willing to do whatever it takes to get what they want. We don’t expect to wake up one day and magically have this perfect life. We don’t complain about having to create our own opportunities in world where they are rarely just given.

You are responsible for your own happiness and well being. Duh.

If you want to live a life that’s less than remarkable simply because you don’t have the will power to make positive changes then that’s on you, but don’t ask for help if you aren’t willing to help yourself.

The longer you go down the road of unwarranted self pity the longer you hold yourself back from living the life of your dreams - Or losing that extra 15 pounds, or saving the money to move out, or finishing school, or finally dumping that jerk.

I don’t know about you but I’d rather be that bitch you hate, who’s living and loving life than the negative Nancy with a list full of broken dreams and regrets.

Well that’s all I have for right now

Have a great day bitches. Love you. Bye.